Normally Christian females date Christian men. However, there are those who end up dating non-Christian men. There is nothing wrong with having non-Christian friends, and God calls us to make fishers of men. However, a relationship, especially one where there’s the hope of marriage is different then a friendship.
A boyfriend or fiance is the person a female spends most of her time with and the human she turns to the most. Women who chose to date need men who will help them grow and become stronger in their relationship with God. Christian women who date non-Christian men will only end up being hindered in their relationship with God, and may even grow apart from God.
Sometimes women will date men in hopes of changing them or in hopes that they’ll change on their own. Men do change, and they learn and grow throughout their lives. This does not mean that a women should be with a man hoping that he’ll turn to Christ. A women waiting around for a man to turn to Christ is only wasting her time. It’s fine to keep in touch with a man and date him if he becomes a Christian, but life is short and there are plenty of Christian men out there.
Christian women need to be true to themselves and their relationship with God. A relationship with God is more important then any other relationship, and no man is worth ruining that relationship. Who am I to speak about this subject? I dated a non-Christian man for many years. Believe me ladies, it isn’t worth it at all.