The Blame Game

Bad things happen to all of us.  Sometimes we cause them to happen and sometimes there’s just no avoiding them.  It’s hard when bad things happen to us, but God is there with us.

There are times when family members and loved ones may keep blaming and faulting you for things that happened.  Even if it was totally the person’s fault there is no need to put them down or make them feel worse.  A lot of times, people don’t mean to make bad things happen to them or make mistakes.  Making mistakes is a part of life.  We all do things we shouldn’t do, it’s just a part of life.

Bad things happen because God lets them happen.  Even if we don’t like them, they are a part of Gods plans for us.  God uses bad things to teach us things and help us become closer to him.  God lets bad things happen to us to make us stronger and wiser.  Bad things happen, but they don’t last forever.  After bad things happen, good things happen and we’re better off then we were before.

It can be hard to see a loved one go through tough times.  That doesn’t mean you should blame yourself or worry about them blaming you.  Things may look bad on the surface, but good things always come out of bad things.

My final thought for this blog is this: would you blame God for anything bad? would you blame someone for being in the middle of Gods plan?


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